Layering: Apply a lip balm or a nude lip pencil first to create a base, then apply the lipstick. This can help to tone down the intensity of the color.

Blending: Use a lip brush to apply the lipstick and blend it towards the outer edges of your lips. This can help to soften the color and make it look more natural.

Mixing: If you have other lipsticks, you can try mixing a small amount of the purple lipstick with a more neutral shade to create a custom color that suits your skin tone better.

Consultation: If you're unsure about how to make the color work for you, consider consulting with a makeup artist who can provide personalized advice and demonstrate techniques.